Q:Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes. 8 years ago. And it was horrible.
I had a BF, we were open, but he still felt the need to go sleep with other people without telling me - cheating - and doing it bareback.
One day he called me at work and told me that two of our friends had called him that day and told him they were poz. I could hear it in his voice - something was wrong.
So, I went straight home, got him and we got tested that day - I was OK, he was not.
I still tried to make it work - but more and more stuff kept coming to light. He was sleeping with all of my friends it seemed. I was made a fool of - part of me wanted to try to get past it and be supportive of his new status - the other part wanted to destroy him. I eventually went with the latter choice. I got him out of my home and told the story of what he did to me over and over to anyone who’d listen. I wanted them all to know what he did to me. I cut off all friends who were involved - leaving with with almost no one. All while battling rumors that I was positive and that I’d some how done something wrong to cause this to myself - or that I deserved it for all the things I’d done when I was single. I was relentless and it cost me a lot of old friends and potential friends. It was a period of time that was about me. It was about finding out who I was and what I was capable of - and reminding others of what I was capable of.
It worked. I actually feel bad about some of the tactics I went through to make sure everyone knew what kind of person he was.
He’s done it to others since then. I kinda hoped that he would move beyond all of that and grow up some day. He has not. He’s gotten white trashier, into harder drugs, and more unhealthy with even more strains in his veins. He has even infected others. And as he approaches 30, what’s left of his looks are not going to hold out.
I am not being mean - I am completely realistic about his prospects as a person. And he is a bad person.
I spent 6-months getting tested constantly - worried that any day I would pop-up poz myself. I spent another 2 years recovering enough of myself respect to get the fuck out of Atlanta and move to San Diego. I even went through dating another cub on the West Coast that couldn’t be honest with me as well - and that time didn’t hurt as much - I knew what to look for - I knew what was wrong - I knew how to handle it quickly and without pause.
And then I met Bailey. I told him what I wanted. I told him the consequences for cheating. I promised I never would. He promised he never would. And here we are, almost 5 years later keeping our promises.
This needs more notes.
GOD FUCKING DAMMIT
I tried to scroll past it. I honestly tried
i hate everything
Can anybody explain this shit to me?
That is a blank piece of sheet music. Musical notes are used to write music. Those notes are absent from the sheet music, and so for it to be music it needs…..notes.
Oh cool - it’s all the music Britney Spears has actually written herself on one page.
Q:Are gloryholes fun? I have been wanting to do one for a while, but I don't know if it is as cool as it seems. Also where would you go to find one?
Yes! Try Squirt.org to search for local Gloryholes.
Q:Do you have a twitter, Instagram, or Facebook?
Q:Could you offer a bit of relationship advice plz. My partner of a few years and myself invited a guy in to be our third and live with us. I thought everything was equal between us, but then I started noticing that the third was paying more attention to my bf. I brush it off. It turned out that the third wasn't even into me at all. I was hurt, and told my bf that there couldn't be anymore third guy if it wasn't equal. Third guy was hurt and didn't understand. My bf has expressed interest
See previous post.
Q:My bf has expressed interest in fooling around with him again. The third guy has become our roommate after all that didn't work out. I told my bf it would really bother me if he fooled around with him after the devastation that happened already. AM I being unfair in saying that it isn't a good idea to allow my bf to not fool around with our roommate?
You are right. You are not being unfair. You have made a reasonable and direct request. I have a zero-tollerence policy when it comes to cheating. If it happens, you should act decisively and with maximum punishment. If that means it’s over -it is over.
No piece of ass is worth the loss of a longtime relationship. He should realize that. If he has doubt and wants to explore other people - he should make arrangements for it WITH you - not invite a 3rd on some unfulfilled need. And especially not cheating.
Keeping a 3rd around as a roommate sounds like a recipe for drama - you need to put a deadline on that.
Q:Have you ever posted a vid online of you topping Bailey
Yep - they are out there.
Q:Have you and your partner ever thought about using chaturbate? It is a good way to talk to your fans on there and do other stuff;)
It’s not our thing. We don’t need the money, don’t have the time, and we get enough attention without it. Good on the folks who have the time and want for it - It’s a great thing!
Q:Can you be my first?
I’m not really a Level 1 kinda guy. I don’t do the breaking in and XP gains like that. I’m post-leveling post-rep-grind end-game world boss.
No, really - I’m not one to take your virginity. I don’t have the patience, I’m too big (I am not tooting my own horn, I’m not beginner penis), and I simply have so much more to show you if you do your learning else where before you get to me.